Funeral poemsCrossing the Bar

Crossing the Bar

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Alfred, Lord Tennyson · 1889

Crossing the Bar

Alfred, Lord Tennyson · 1889

Sunset and evening star, And one clear call for me! And may there be no moaning of the bar, When I put out to sea, But such a tide as moving seems asleep, Too full for sound and foam, When that which drew from out the boundless deep Turns again home. Twilight and evening bell, And after that the dark! And may there be no sadness of farewell, When I embark; For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place The flood may bear me far, I hope to see my Pilot face to face When I have crost the bar.

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What Serany thinks about this poem

Background

Tennyson wrote it in 1889, when he was eighty, on a boat crossing to the Isle of Wight after an illness. He asked for it to go at the end of every book of his poems, and it still does.

Meaning

Dying is a boat leaving the harbour at sunset. He's asking to go quietly, with no fuss, and he believes someone will be waiting for him.

Who's it for

Someone who had a long life and was ready. Especially right for anyone who went to sea, or just loved being near it.

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