Funeral poemsDo Not Stand At My Grave And Weep

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep

Mary Elizabeth Frye · 1932

Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep

Mary Elizabeth Frye · 1932

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Background

A woman called Mary Frye wrote it in 1932 on a torn-off piece of paper bag, for a friend who couldn't get home before her mum died. It's read at more funerals in Britain than any other poem.

Meaning

It's saying don't stand at the grave and cry, because that isn't where they are any more. They're in the wind, the snow, the sun on the fields, the birds going over.

Who's it for

Almost anyone, honestly. It's best of all for someone who was always outside: out walking, in the garden, never in the house.

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