Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep
Mary Elizabeth Frye · 1932
Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep
Mary Elizabeth Frye · 1932
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Background
A woman called Mary Frye wrote it in 1932 on a torn-off piece of paper bag, for a friend who couldn't get home before her mum died. It's read at more funerals in Britain than any other poem.
Meaning
It's saying don't stand at the grave and cry, because that isn't where they are any more. They're in the wind, the snow, the sun on the fields, the birds going over.
Who's it for
Almost anyone, honestly. It's best of all for someone who was always outside: out walking, in the garden, never in the house.
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