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I Shall Not Care

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I Shall Not Care

Sara Teasdale · 1915

When I am dead and over me bright April Shakes out her rain-drenched hair, Though you should lean above me broken-hearted, I shall not care. I shall have peace, as leafy trees are peaceful When rain bends down the bough, And I shall be more silent and cold-hearted Than you are now.

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What Serany thinks about this poem

Background

Sara Teasdale wrote it in 1915, about someone who didn't love her back rather than about anyone dying. Families found it much later and picked it for how calm it is.

Meaning

She's imagining being gone, and being completely at peace. Spring carries on above her, rain in the grass, the trees moving in it, and nothing can hurt her any more.

Who's it for

Someone who was their own person and never needed anyone's approval. Right for a woman who did things her own way and would have hated a fuss.

Sara Teasdale, photographed by Gerhard Sisters

Photograph by Gerhard Sisters. Public domain.

Sara Teasdale

American · 1884 – 1933

Sara Teasdale won the first Pulitzer Prize ever given for poetry, in 1918. She wrote short, plain, musical poems about love and dying, and died in New York in 1933 at forty-eight.

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